Warning: This Blog is Written by a Kick-Ass Meeting Planner and Contains Strong Opinions, Questionable Language, and Radical Authenticity (Copy)

There was a time when I thought I had to tone myself down to fit into the professional world. You know—be quieter in meetings, phrase things just so, avoid ruffling feathers, essentially, sit down, be quiet, take notes, and only speak up when asked. But let’s be real: it’s not only a subservient role, it’s also fucking exhausting.

If you’ve ever felt like you had to mask who you are to fit in at work, you’re not alone.

I’ve spent my meeting planning career, an industry where precision, organization, and “professionalism” (whatever that even means) are highly valued. And look, I get it—our job is about making everything run flawlessly. But here’s the thing: authenticity doesn’t mean chaos. It means trust.

And trust? That’s the foundation of every great event, every high-functioning team, and every lasting relationship - whether that’s with a client, a colleague, a vendor, or even an attendee.